We should not be dominate and selfish toward other. On the other hand, we should let them go and live their own lives.
Everybody has got gifts from Lord. They might be listening, speaking, doing something, anything that we are good at.
The Holy Spirit comes to realize the gifts Lord has already given us.
Jesus Appears to His Disciples 19 On the evening of that first day of the week, when the disciples were together, with the doors locked for fear of the Jews, Jesus came and stood among them and said, Peace be with you!
John 20:19
The Holy Spirit Comes at Pentecost 1 When the day of Pentecost came, they were all together in one place.
Act 2:1